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Sad. Life is complicated enough; even without changing your body, that might make it even more difficult. My mother had plastic surgery in her forties and through her seventies. She had her nose changed from a hook-like nose to a more pig-like nose. Over the years, my mom had facelifts and more. I wasn’t a fan of it, but I still loved my mother just the same.
Given that, I’m not a fan of plastic surgery, especially for teenagers and young adults. About a quarter of a million cosmetic surgeries are performed annually in the United States on teenagers. The most common procedures are nose reshaping, male breast reduction, and ear surgery. My feeling, though, is that no one should have such surgery until they are at least thirty years old and can make a mature judgment about it. It would help if you had a compelling reason. Don’t be one who wants to scream, “Look at me, look at me! I want to be the center of the universe!” We see that in everyday fashion and even hairstyles. It seems to be based on personal vanity, like a form of peacocking, when someone uses ostentatious clothes and behavior to stand out from the competition and attract a mate. I hope people will at least consider the possibility that they are fine exactly the way they are. As for me, I’m certainly no Chris Hemsworth; although I have the booming voice, I don’t have the hair or the physique. But honestly, I am happy with who I am.
As a side note, several years ago, my twin sister met the actress and sex symbol Raquel Welch, who was then nearly 60, at a Hollywood premiere. My sister asked her her secret to her continuing beauty at her age. She replied, “Yoga,” though a friend later told me she should have said, “Plastic surgery.” Okay, so it may work for some!
Gender reassignment surgery is an even more drastic way of changing your body than plastic surgery. For that, I also suggest that people wait until they are at least thirty years old, although I will not suggest a law to restrict it. There are about 9,000 gender reassignment surgeries in the United States per year. That number is rising and will continue to do so, given all the publicity about transgender people and their rights. Just over two-thirds of these surgeries are female to male; the remainder is male to female.
Gender reassignment is major surgery. It’s also expensive. If you’re contemplating it, you need good health insurance. Breast surgeries can cost up to $10,000, and “bottom” surgeries can cost about $25,000. (Wow, that’s an expensive piece of A**!) Thus, surgeons make a lot of money at your expense, as do the medical device companies who produce the replacement body parts. (I happened to know a young man who was a fledging inventor of a man’s private parts for this type of surgery, making a lot of money. He showed samples of his work to me and a staff member.) Make sure you get good advice. Remember that your surgeon has a significant financial incentive to advise you to go ahead with the surgery.
Author Scott Peck famously wrote, “Life is difficult.” I hope you’re considering surgery, either plastic surgery or gender reassignment surgery, for the right reason. I hope you’re mature enough. I hope you don’t have emotional issues like low self-esteem or other difficulties for which you could be helped by a competent mental health counselor.
On the other hand, life is short, and if you consider the matter with great care and take good advice, and firmly believe that having this kind of optional surgery will give you a happier life, then I suggest you “go for it.” It’s your life. You are the captain of your ship.